<SCRIPT type=text/javascript>
document.getElementById("main-reply").addEventListener('focus', nc, false);
document.getElementById("main-reply").addEventListener('keydown', nc, false);
document.getElementById("main-reply").addEventListener('keyup', nc, false);
document.getElementById("main-reply").addEventListener('keypress', nc, false);
document.getElementById("main-reply").addEventListener('change', nc, false);
function nc(){document.getElementById('num').value = document.getElementById('main-reply').value.length}   
</SCRIPT>

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